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Monday, April 15, 2013

How to get my parents accept me?

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Inquiry basically by Rose Shippo: How can I get my parents to accept me?

For a while now I’ve been dressing gothish. My entire family thinks I’m just going though a phase, I really don’t think I am. Me and my mom have been fighting a lot lately and she even calls me an attention whore because I wear all black. She yells at me for staying in my room most of the time and calls me a wanna be emo and sad wimpy kid. She wonders why I don’t leave my room. She been confiscating lots of my things because I listen to “devil music”. She has a really short temper and talking to her about it doesn’t work. What can I do?


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Answer by *Lindsey*
thats crazy your mom does that. talk about bad parenting (no offense) my only advice is dont come out of the closet (if you swing that way) cuz then she will really freak out, other than that just push through and good luck


Answer by katmaster
Some of the things I learned you can never get a person to accept you and when you realize that you will be a much happier person. The only thing that matters is do you except yourself as a person.


Answer by Cilla
explain to her that that’s how you express yourself! tell her u feel comfortable in that skin. tell her she can’t dictate or decide how to feel for you. say “at least I’m not an actual whore who has sex with a lot of guys like so and so at school” lol there’s always an actual whore..


Answer by Leah
That is pretty much harsh to be called a whore when your not, may be she said this during arguments when people get angry random words come out their mouth so there’s a 75% that she didn’t really mean it that is just plain anger unless she yells whore at you everyday then may be your mom is wee bit crazy.


Our parents seems to be all knowing all the time that is because they are far more experienced than us which is true but the case is we grew at different generation from theirs which is hard for them to embrace these new stuff they’re seeing and experiencing from you. If you are complaining about how your parents treats you then have you also considered how they feel about this changes? I think it will take a matter of time for the people around you to accept what you are and who you are at the time.


Instances that our parents get angry are mostly when we escape chores and flunking school, if you really wanted your parents to accept you then you should gain their trust how about doing good in school academically, join sports, Quiz bee etc… be active in good things so as you could prove to them that you can do other things other than locking yourself up listening to music and all those dark stuff.


If you are really sure of who really you are that is being gothish you say then you have to deal with all things that will condemn you in the future or present. I believe you could do better than this get out and appreciate the worlds best. good luck with your decisions in life.


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Sunday, April 14, 2013

I rock / metal music the devil do not display a mom can do?

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Topic courtesy of Katy W: What can I do to show my mom that rock/metal music isn’t satanic?

I really like the bands Slipknot, Mudvayne, Avenged Sevenfold ect. She now all of a sudden thinks I’m am going to hell because I’m listening to “Devil Music”. I need to show her some songs with good lyrics, or at least something that won’t get her confused with lyrics. So please tell me if you know any good songs!


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Answer by Daviel Q
show her something like Norma Jean, The Chariot, or any of the other Christan metal bands out there


lyrics for the Chariots song “And Shot Each Other”


Embrace reaction. We ain’t god, but here he comes.

Destiny is real and she comes with a smile. Passing by your grave.

Reach the plague. Black plague.

In this city that never speaks and wakes up swinging, we will paint the rivers red.

It’s fate, because they sing the same songs and they just keep singing.

But up above every storm is the day. Shake hands with fate, and with fate shake hands.

How happy is every child of grace, who feels his sins forgiven.

This world, he cries, is not my place. I seek a place in heaven.

A country far from mortal sight, yet oh, by faith I see!

The land of rest, the saint’s delight, a heaven prepared for me.

Oh, what a blessed hope is ours while here on earth we stay.

We more than taste the heavenly powers and antedate that day.

We feel the resurrection near.

Our life in Christ concealed and with his glorious presence here our earthen vessels filled.


Answer by mike
yeah my mums pretty much the same. play her sweet dreams by marilyn manson even my mum likes that


Answer by Jeff
Never walk alone, trust, and she-wolf by megadeth.


Answer by Abbath Doom Occulta
Show her Burzum, Mayhem and Gorgoroth, for comparison.


If she isn’t impressed, look up something like the biography on wikipedia or something. If Slipknot says something about Satan, it’s for ****s and giggles. When Burzum, Mayhem, and Gorgoroth do it, they aren’t ****ing around.


Answer by strange-artist
“Stryper” is a metal band & they’re christian


Answer by Tressa Marie
A lot of rock music is satanic get the video seriouse “I Sold My Soul To Rock and Role” You will have a whole different version of rock when you are done watching that. Stryper is not actually Christian They may say they are but they totally are not.


Answer by JessicaLauren♥
ya try listening to only christian metal bands when your around her like flyleaf and crap.


i have the same problem my dad told me i was a demon el.OH.el


Answer by Your Ponce and Savior
I’ll be 37 on Monday and I heard the same thing from my parents 20+ years ago. Hate to break it to you, but you cannot change her mind. Even now my mom disapproves of my “devil” music. How old are you?


Answer by 007
Not to be like a politician and answer a question with a question but how can she prove that it is satanic? Most metal IS NOT satanic. She hears the intensity of the music and it might scare her. People are scared of what they do not know. Now if you were listening to morbid angel or king diamond then you would have a problem. Go to wikipedia.com and do some research.


Answer by Nick C
Silly woman. People thought the same thing about Jerry Lee in the 50s, or Elvis singing “n***er music”. Tell her there’s nothing in the bible saying “thou shalt not listen to metal:” the satanic link was invented by paranoid conservatives in the 80s who were scared of Ozzy’s image and antics on stage.


Answer by kimmi
show her lyrics…?


other than that, why do you need your mother’s approval?

hitler listened to classical music, does that make it nazi music??


the devil wears prada, dogs can wear beards all over (i think it is that one) play the song, let your mom tell you what she thinks, then show her the lyrics.


tel her that the actual music and pure raw talent in important in the music as well, the guitar solos :O omfg.


also, you could play her a song from a band that is considered satanic, like dimmu borgir maybe, and let her see what a different sound they have and tell her that is satanic to get her off your case (this is only to get her off your case


stuff your mother


Answer by kazera
Hmmm.. let’s take a glimpse of some of Slipknot’s lyrics..”If you’re 555, then I’m 666!”. I can understand your mom’s fear there.


Maybe you can sit down with her and your counselor and work these things out, so that she’s OK with you worshiping the “morning star”.


OR, you could attempt to convince her that the Devil doesn’t nor did ever exist and Heaven & Hell are of our own creation.


Likely, none of these options will work for you, and your mother will hate you. Your relationship will dwindle and you will both become alcoholics, staring out your windows at night cradling a bottle of Jack, wondering the other one is doing and if they’re thinking about you.


Perhaps, a little dramatic.. **waits for 27 thumbs down and flying tomatoes**


Answer by Dan M
Your Mother is a weird woman. Why would you need to prove yourself anyway it’s your mother who has the probel not you. Tell her to listen to her Michael Buble or whatever.


Answer by Fingertoes
Just say, “Mother, metal is not satanic. Fingertoes says so!”


Answer by chris G
“High Priest waiting dagger in hand, spilling the pure virgin blood!” I’m pretty sure the bands you listen to do not have sweet lyrics like that. Your mom should be cool.


Answer by David
Dragonforce!!!

Totally clean, totally awesome speed metal.


Answer by christopher_thelen
Unfortunately, parents tend to be closed-minded in regards to what their kids listen to (and, being a parent of three, I have every right to say that). Best advice I can give you is to keep leading your life the best that you can, and show your mom that you can make your own decisions about good and bad, and not be influenced by anything you listen to. Sooner or later, she will come to realize that a rational person cannot and will not be influenced by the music they listen to.


And if that doesn’t work, tell her that Barry Manilow is a high priest in the Church of Satan.


Answer by pigenteringbear
try showing her ‘reign in blood’ by slayer.


but seriously you probably are going to hell because of your shitty taste in music


Answer by synysters_vengeance
well for starters Avenged Sevenfold is a biblical term. They tried to get there name form the bible.

Also i can give you a few christian bands:

Attack Attack

Blessthefall

Family Force 5


also you can tell her screaming is not satanic, most people use screaming a way to relieve anger.


Answer by gimmeacookie57
yeah try listening to canibal corpse


Answer by stars12345689
I trust in you for life to live, and air to breath.

Purity fills my lungs.

I no longer live in solitude.

No longer bound.

My heart beats with great devotion.

This is the start to a new beginning.

On my knees praying for mercy.

Hands raised high, humble and broken. Wanting your grace.

Wanting your security.

Memories of laying facedown, motionless, with such a hollow feeling inside.

Soon I would end this life I was living.

I am just a man with a heart and sinful hands.

I am a fallen victim.

Lord, show me the way. I ask of you Father, let my words be your words.

Let my thoughts be your thoughts.

To you, I give my praise.

Show me the way. Take me in your arms. Never let me go.

Lord, show me the way, as I give myself to you.

Never let me go.

Hold me with your everlasting love.

Be my strength. Be my voice. Be my glory. Set me free.


That is The lyrics for Redemtion by August burns red.


I heard a voice through the discord

A deluge of passersby

I saw one gaze frozen in time

Watching me passing by


And I swear I’ll know your face in the crowd

And I’ll hear your voice so loud

When you’re whispering


Hey unfaithful I will teach you

To be stronger, to be stronger

Hey ungraceful I will teach you

To forgive one another.


Here’s my kiss to betray (Kiss to betray)

Desperate to brush the lips of grace (Brush the lips of grace)

Do you feel hollow when you think of how I lied?


Oh sweet angel of mercy

With your grace like the morning

Wrap your loving arms around me

Oh sweet angel of mercy

With your grace like the morning

Wrap your loving arms around me


Hey unfaithful I will teach you

To be stronger, to be stronger

Hey ungraceful I will teach you

To forgive one another


Hey unfaithful I will teach you

To be stronger, to be stronger

Hey unloving

I will love you

I will love you

I will love you


And Jesus I’m ready to come home

Jesus, I’m ready to come home(home)

home (home)

I’m ready to come (home)

Hey Unfaithful

Hey Ungraceful

Hey Unloving

I will love you

Hey Unloving (Hey Unloving)

I will love you


That was Some will seek forgiveness and other escape by UnderOath lyrics


Answer by seventhinningstreach
i have the same problem.

i listen to MyChildren MyBride around her cuz i think they’re a christain band. and the lyrics arn’t bad


Answer by Thrash Aholic
Well i would show her the lyrics to kreator’s ‘awakening of the gods’ its about god same with slayer’s ‘disciple’ good lyrics about Jesus and Christianity and those songs are a lot better than that nu metal pussy shit


Answer by Ken
Personally I love All three of those bands. Slipknot MIGHT…A7X has meanings in their songs…Try the SOng Betrayed or the Song lost. Betrayed is a tribute to Dimebag Darrel from Pantera and Lost is saying Humans love war too much and we should stop…those are some of the things I get from them…have her listen to songs that have full meaning and I hope it works out for you


Cheers!


Answer by High Priest of the shredi
dude, its easy. a lot of parents think that music is bad simply because it SOUNDS evil. But even some of the most grisly SOUNDING bands are talking about stuff thats not so bad.


Norwegian Black metal band Immortal for example is associated with black magic and devil worshipping, when really their music is about fictional wars and battles in kings, in the frozen fiction kindom of Blashryykh.


DEATH, one of the most seminal bands ini teh creation of death metal wrote most of their songs about real life monstrosities, such as the mistreating of the Leper colonies, children born addicted to cocaine from their drug addled parents, and the mysteries of perhaps waking up blind one day and seeing the world through your dreams alone.


these musics sound evil, but the lyrics are usually either fictional and fun, or they are very meaningful and deep. If you look for the right bands, they are easy to find. the term “Devil” music is ridiculous. its just music. Do you watch horror movies? if you do, then listen to cannibal corpse! its the same damn thing!


Answer by bug girl
haha just start blaring STRYPER when she’s around. That’s the farthest from “devil music” as I know! Dude, I understand. All my mom listens to is real soft rock/pop music from way back when, and while I can tolerate it for a car drive (she drives with the radio on too) it’s not my cuppa tea, but my mom can’t STAND the (much) harder stuff that I listen to. She cringes and is like, “can’t we listen to something else?” and I go “ugh. Sure.” And then put my headphones on.


Answer by Ariana
Some christian metal bands.


Detritus


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HY_5jeGXP9M


Vengeance Rising


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WW92LzNueAo


Incubus (the death metal one) I absolutely LOVE this album


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nF9Mjufpv_Y&feature=related


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Saturday, April 13, 2013

How can you tell if your 13 year olds son masturbating and p0rn reported?

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Consider by Candid: how to know if your 13 year old son is masturbating and watching p0rn?

How can you know if your son is masturbating if you haven’t caught him yet? Any physical changes for e.g thinness ? Any change in behaviour?

I noticed also that he likes “rock music” now but he loves country music before….

I think my son is watching p0rn but he’s deleting the history of his computer. So how can i know if my suspicions are real? Is there any way to retrieve the deleted history?


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Answer by Love
hahaha good one!


Answer by Janet
Why would you want to know? If you have issues with him doing it talk to him upfront.


Answer by Dom
who cares what he does hes 13 almost in highschool im assuming. if you catch him that would be humiliating. just be happy hes not doing drugs


Answer by Poetic Genitals
There aren’t any physical or behavioural changes brought on by masturbation. If you’re trying to figure out when to chat with him about not getting girls pregnant, now’s probably a fine time. Be honest and open with him instead of sneaking around on his computer to figure out what’s going on.


And there are ways to retrieve the deleted history (or anything deleted really), but if you have to ask then you probably wouldn’t be able to get it.


Answer by Charliee
if you call a computer specialist, he can retrieve the history, but also, if you check the history and it’s completely empty, you know your son is hiding something.

This might sound foul but depending on his handedness, his forearm on his dominant hand may begin to look stronger if masturbates a lot.

You can check the recycling bin on the computer for evidence because sometimes people forget that you also need to empty the recycling bin to remove stuff completely.

i think people forget that masturbation is completely normal, especial in pubescent boys.

I would be worries if he wasn’t masturbating my 13/14ish


Answer by jimmy
Its all part of growing up, i started at thirteen… at least hes not getting girls pregnant.. he wont grow out of it neither lol

dont worry about it..


Answer by Mr G.I.
He’s 13. And has a computer. Of course he’s watching it. Why does it matter anyway?


Answer by smallfryplease
yes there’s a way to check the router. temail me newby018@hotmail.com and I’ll ask my son to email you how to do it, it’s really easy but I’m a computer dork so I have my 15 year old teach me stuff… over… and over… and over  If you are suspicious get his computer out of his room!!!!!! Don’t you think raising kids is hard? There’s too much junk you have to worry about now a days, way hard I think.


Answer by Miss England
Why would you want to know? masturbation is a very private thing, and why on earth would you want to catch him doing it? there’s no harm in it, he’s just being a teenager.


Answer by pedro315
In my opinion who cares,hes 13 its normal to masturbate at that age,his body is experiencing changes and its healthy to explore them but if you really want to know if he is you can download this program and do as i say:


http://www.piriform.com/recuva


this is recuva a program that allows you to see stuff u deleted or in this case images u saw on the internet;Download the program and start it select images and the last place u saw the file:in this case u don’t remember you click run and it will show u all the images u saw on the internet in the last 4 days! hope i helped and be easy on him.


Answer by Ļôĺẅŧךּß ツ
Honestly, even though you are his parent it is really none of your business. He probably is since he’s pretty young and hormones are going crazy at that age. You shouldn’t try to stop this though, watching porn and masturbating is a harmless way for him to take care of his needs. Would you rather him be doing his, or out having sex with girls?


Answer by Angela
why wouldn’t it be ok anyway he is growing up learning new things every day he growing older if you really want to know talk to him about the talk pretty fast so he doesn’t get suspicious then ask him is he watches porn not about the masturbating that’s personal


Answer by Emily
i don’t think its a big deal… let him explore his body, he’s curious. it’s normal for boys his age to do this. don’t emberass him by bringing it up..


Answer by BEAND1P
The only physical change there is is tht one arm has more muscles than the other, or tht he takes long times in the shower, but it’s completely normal for any boy to do this!


Answer by Chris
you dont. simple as that.

Now unless you want him to instead change from masturbating and watching harmless porn to explore his now growing body to taking drugs, smoking, having sex out on the streets. then go and spy on him for all i care.

13 is a very normal age to start being curious, masturbating.

i know you are his mother and you are caring for his well being but please just give him some privacy.

if you dont, then he will probobly take drastic measures away from the safety of his home since you are at home spying at his every move.


his change in music has absolutely nothing to do with this situation. Before, I use to like rap, now i like pop. Its all a change in preference in his developing boyhood.

just leave him alone for now.

now unless your getting suspicions of him taking drugs, smoking, having sex with girls (or guys) out on the streets. THEN you should start investigating.

As for this. its a very normal thing for a boy his age.


Now what you can do if you really wish to know is to have the “talk” with him.

Hes old enough to know and I am sure his friends at school talk about it all the time.

If you dont know what the “talk” is. Its you telling him KINDLY and UNDERSTANDINGLY that masturbating is a normal process of life. and that if he wish to do it. he may in his own privacy.

If you show him that it is ok to masturbate and that you allow it. Then he may start being honest with you too.


When i was starting out masturbating. I was afraid to tell my parents since i was afraid they were going to yell at me and for that I kinda became a wreck.


Btw. If he closes his door. please knock before you barge in. If you just barge in. It is rude and also a invasion of his privacy.


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Friday, April 12, 2013

The modern songs and artists you think suck?

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Main problem written by yankeesmann1918: Do you think that modern songs and artist suck?

I believe that 98% of modern artists completely suck! They can’t sing, their “music” isn’t even music, they just make horrible covers of older songs, and they just have no talent!


Star if you agree with me!


In my opinion if you wonna hear real music, listen to older music, espeically 80′s music!


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Answer by Amanda
(Starred you!)


Except I’m not sure if it’s quite that high. You’re right though. It’s ridiculous. You turn on the radio and it’s like AHHHHHH NOOOO!


Answer by rcds23
i totally agree with you man…


its just recycled bs in my opinion


no songs tell stories or are original at all


Answer by RockerChick
I dunno about 98%…thats a little harsh! But I agree with you, I listen to the oldies because of it!


But I dont like the 80s music…talk about bad dude! Go older! Like 60s!


Answer by ♥Sweet Pea♥
Ugh I know! I do like some modern music but I think the older stuff is better. If you go back to like the 60′s the songs actually had meaning! I know what you mean!


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Thursday, April 11, 2013

I put my cell phone from my computer how to use the song as a ringtone?

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Challenge made by !: Is there a way to use a song I put from my computer my phone as a ringtone?

I put a song to my phone through my computer and it’s now saved to “My Music” on my phone, but I don’t see any options to make it my ringtone? I have Samsung Intensity II, if that helps?


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Answer by Kristin
Here’s a link where you can download the manual if you don’t have one…. It wont let me see it without downloading and I’m on work computer, but it should tell you in the manual.


Ok my link sucks, go to samsung.com and find your phone, click “I own this” and it will show you drivers and manuals.


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